What is a Soulmate/ How Can You Find Them?
April 08, 2024 11 min read

What is a Soulmate/ How Can You Find Them?

By Lady Saoirse

Find out all about soulmates including what they are, when and how you discover your soulmate, ways you can tell if you have met your soulmate, and how soulmates change your life.

Soulmates are very important people who understand us so deeply, they have a soul connection with us. Join Spiritual Blossom for an exploration of soulmates. Find out what a soulmate is and how they are different from twin flames. Learn how you find your soulmate and how to find out if somebody is one. Find out when you'll meet them, if you can have more than one soul mate, and if they will always be with you. Read all the way to the end to find out how to get your very own horoscopes delivered right to you today.

What Soulmates Are

What is a Soulmate/ How Can You Find Them?

Soulmates are people who understand us more than anybody else ever has. Even on your worst day, your soulmate will still think you are the best of people. Some people believe that forming a bond with a soulmate creates a more powerful bond than we can ever have with anybody else. Other people believe that we have an eternal bond with our soulmate that transcends life, death, and rebirth. Some people say they do not feel complete unless they have their soulmate in their life, as if their soulmate is half of them. Some close relationships are not with soulmates and they take time to form. To read about the stages of a relationship, see here: What Are the Phases of Relationships?

Edgar Cayce believed the creator made androgynous creatures and split them apart when they angered him. These beings can find one another and be reunited again after many lives and paying karmic debts. Some people say this concept is ridiculous and that one person is not created for the purpose of joining with somebody else. While it is true that we are independent creatures, the fact some people make us feel complete, totally loved and understood, and empty when they are gone is undeniable. Soulmates, however they are defined, are people that make our lives feel whole and who we love, trust, and feel entirely at home with. One Zodiac sign that seems to embody two people in one, also called “The Twins”, is Gemini and you can read about them here: Gemini Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility

What is a Soulmate vs Twin Flame

Is your soulmate twin flame material? Actually, soulmates and twin flames are entirely different. Twin flames are not simply soulmates, but they are a part of you. It is believed by some people that the soul can split itself into multiple bodies and a twin flame is somebody who shares a part of your soul with you. Some people believe that souls can only split into two bodies, but other people believe that a soul can spread itself into as many bodies as it wants. Twin flames don't necessarily find each other in real life, but might just see one another in dreams. If you have especially vivid dreams that you are talking to another part of yourself, chances are you're visiting with your twin flame in a dream. To read more about twin flames see here: What’s a Twin Flame? 

How to Find Your Soulmate

What is a Soulmate/ How Can You Find Them?

 Is it difficult to find your soulmate? Not at all, but it might require a little bit of patience. There are no special meditations, prayers, or magical operations that can bring your soulmate to you. You don't have to be spiritually pure, advanced, or worthy. You don't have to go on a pilgrimage or complete any assignments set forth by the universe or the powers that be. The way to find your soulmate is to just let it happen but it's meant to. It would be nice if we could find our soulmate the second we wanted to, that they appear to us just at the right time, so don't worry. You and your soulmate will find each other when you're supposed to. For some people it is a deeply spiritual experience when they find their soulmate and you can read about the spiritual meaning of love here: What is the Spiritual Meaning of Love?

 How to Find Out if Someone is Your Soulmate

What is a Soulmate/ How Can You Find Them?

You might think you have already found your soulmate, and you just might be correct. There are ways that you can tell if somebody already is your soulmate. Chances are if you think they are, you're right. Sometimes your soul knows best and you just shouldn't question yourself. There are a few signs that you can look for if you have questions, however. You and your soulmate will be in complete harmony with one another, you will share pretty much everything, and they will be your most important person.

It Just Feels Right

Sometimes your intuition knows best. If your heart and soul tell you that someone is your soulmate, then they probably are. Sometimes there is no way to explain how you can tell this. Your soul just knows. You might not realize it at first, but the longer a soulmate is in your life, the closer you are to realizing who they are. Maybe your soulmate isn't who you thought they'd be, or they don't embody all the things that you thought a soulmate would, but your heart just knows that they are your soulmate anyways. Follow your instincts and enjoy your life with your soulmate. One Zodiac sign that is very in touch with their psychic abilities it's Pisces and you can read about them here:Pisces Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility

You Completely Harmonize

Part of knowing you have found your soulmate is that you are in a relationship that is characterized by complete harmony. Nobody understands you quite like your soulmate. That doesn't necessarily mean that you will always agree on everything, or that you will never have a fight. You might break up with your soulmate even if it is temporarily, but when you're together you will completely harmonize with one another. You will understand each other on a deep level, and you may not even need to explain your thoughts or feelings. You will both just know. You may be so much alike, people tease you and say that you behave as exactly the same person, or you might be very different from one another. You will feel completely at home with your soulmate and you will completely understand one another. One Zodiac Sign that seeks harmony their entire life is Libra and you can read about their Zodiac flowers here: What is the Best Libra Flower?

You Share Everything

You will find yourself telling your soulmate everything. You will keep no secrets from one another, and you will confide in one another no matter what. You may feel that your day is not complete unless you're able to share everything that you did with one another, and any time you're apart, you will be planning what you will say when you come back together. You will give one another advice, guide one another on matters of love, and you may even share all of the same opinions on things. Your soulmate will be somebody who you feel completely comfortable with, and you will feel like you can tell them everything. One Zodiac Sign that loves to share with the people that they love is Leo and you can read about them here: Leo Traits and Love Compatibility

You Are Most important to Each Other

Your soulmate will be the most important person in your life. They might not be your best friend or your significant other and they might not be a family member. For whatever reason however, they will be the person who matters to you more than anyone else because you share a deep connection. You will put them first and they will put you first above all other relationships. Other people in your life might become jealous and try to come between you, but neither one of you will allow that to happen. You will even put your soulmate before yourself. They will also bring out the best parts in you and help you to be the best that you can be. To read about being your best self, see here: How to Be Your Best Self

When Will I Meet My Soulmate?

Wouldn't it be nice if the time we meet our soulmate would be right this moment? The truth is we don't get to decide when we're going to meet our soulmate. We meet them the moment when the universe decides for us to. Maybe they come into our lives on our darkest day when we need them the most. Maybe they come to us before we have endured any tragedies. They might enter our lives when we have endured the worst pain ever and we have overcome it on our own. Each of us meets our soulmates at a different time, and that is exactly when we are met to. It doesn't all have to be shrouded in mystery though. You can consult the Tarot if you have questions and you can read about Tarot Card interpretations here: A Quick Guide to Tarot Cards and their Meanings

Can You Have More Than One Soulmate?

What is a Soulmate/ How Can You Find Them?

Yes! It is entirely possible to have more than one soulmate and it is also possible to have more than one soulmate at a time. Some people might think that this will create conflict, but it won't. Soulmates come into our life for a reason, and usually that is to share their lives with us. Some soulmates come into our lives to help us learn great spiritual lessons, and some of them come into our lives to be partners with us. Your soulmate might be a romantic partner, but they might not be. They could be a parent, a child, another family member, a great friend, or even a peer. Keep your heart and your awareness open so that you know all of your soulmates. Psychic abilities can help you discover soulmates, and you can read about clairvoyant psychic abilities here: What is Clairvoyant Psychic Reading?

Does Everybody Have a Soulmate?

Yes, everybody has at least one soulmate. Maybe you're lonesome, and you don't know if you believe that or not. That just means you probably haven't met your soulmate yet. It is also possible that you have met your soulmate, and you just don't realize it. It is entirely possible that your soulmate is a big part of your life right now, and you just can't tell. It can be confusing, because everybody's soulmate relationship is different. Maybe your soulmate is your best friend, and someone else's soul mate is their twin sister or brother who has been with them since birth. Maybe you don't get to see your soulmate very often, and that's why you don't know that they are. Even if you haven't met your soulmate yet, you will discover your soulmate when the time is right. One creature said to lead us to love is the ladybug and you can read about them here: Ladybug Spiritual Meaning, Lore, and Symbolism

Will My Soulmate Always Be with Me?

What is a Soulmate/ How Can You Find Them?

Maybe they will, but maybe they won’t. Most especially, if you have more than one soulmate, it is possible they will just be in your life temporarily. Why would this happen? Wouldn’t it make more sense for soulmates to be together forever? Nobody knows for sure exactly why some soulmates are just with us for a short time and others are in our lives for a long time. It is possible you have a karmic connection, finding each other from a past life, and you come together to complete something, and part again. To read more about love, and telling people you love them, see here: When Should I Tell Him I Love Him? 

Some soulmates stay together until death separates them. Each soulmate relationship is different, and there is no telling where your journey will take you except one place- together. Together, you might complete one another’s life, but who knows? Together, you might change the world. One thing is for sure- you will be with your soulmate exactly when you are meant to, and for how long you are meant to.

Can I Breakup with My Soulmate?

What is a Soulmate/ How Can You Find Them?

It might seem like your soulmate is someone who you are meant to be with for the rest of your life once you meet them, but does that always happen? Not necessarily. As we have discussed, your soulmate might not be with you for your whole life, and one reason why they would leave could be because of a breakup. Even the best relationships end sometimes, and they don't always end on good terms. Sometimes you and your soul mate break up because you have fulfilled whatever you are meant to for one another and it's time for you to move on to a different stage in your life. To read about how the Zodiac Signs break up see here: Breakups with Each of the Signs

Our soulmates don't make us who we are, but they make a life with us. Soul mates are people who we are blessed to have that understand us so well, we wonder how we can get by without them. They come to us when we least expect them to, and sometimes they are gone as quickly as they appeared. Everybody has at least one soulmate, so don't worry if you haven't met yours yet. They are out there.

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About the Author: LadySaoirse has studied magic and lore for most of her life but started walking her own Magical Path after being spiritually reborn in the desert. Today she is a High Priestess for The Temple of the Goddess, she is a psychic advisor and spiritual counselor, she shares her gifts as a Psychic and Content Writer for Spiritual Blossom, and she writes for The Green Egg. She has written for Mysticsense and PaganPagesOrg emag.