Learn how to find love, make sure that people love you, and express love perfectly. Follow our easy formula to manifest love by giving and receiving it perfectly.
Everybody wants to be loved, but sometimes, you might feel like love is missing from your life. When you feel this way, it doesn’t help to see happy people surrounded by friends, family, and significant others who they share love with. You might wonder what it is that makes them so special they have unlimited love, which you think you don’t have. The good news is, people who seem to have more people who love them than you do have no secrets. Manifesting love entails giving love as well as being open to love. Everybody can do this and it’s simpler than you’d think. Join Spiritual Blossom to learn all about how to manifest love. Just don’t be surprised if you find out you have been doing everything exactly the right way all along.
What is Love?
True Love is something that lasts forever. It isn’t based on whether you like somebody or approve of the things they say or do. When you are hurt or angry, if you love somebody, you still act like it. When you love somebody, you treat them well, and you care about their physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing. Even if you have to make some sacrifices, if you love someone, you will do what you feel benefits them most. The surprising thing is that love doesn’t mean you have to be a part of one another’s lives. If someone mistreats them, so you cut off the relationship, and you still won’t harm them if you love them. To read about spiritual love see here: What is the Spiritual Meaning of Love?
Why do we love? Some people say it is a natural human instinct to attach to other people and form emotional bonds, and other people say that love happens because of the nature of the relationship. Some relationships are formed because of family ties, and others are formed because you have a lot in common with somebody and enjoy sharing your life with them. Then there is romantic love based on being a mate and life partner with someone. Merriam Webster online has several definitions of love, one of which says love is “ to hold dear: cherish” and it defines this as a verb, an action word. So, love is more than just a feeling. It is an action, and a way of life, and the only way to live our best lives.
To some people, the love they share with other people is everything to them. There will be times when people have lost a job, have no place of their own to call home, and are worried about what the future will bring, but they are surrounded by people who love them, so they feel like they have all they need. So, how exactly can we go about making all of that happen? How can we find people to love so much it makes everything worth it and how can we express love to them in ways that makes them want to be with us forever? The secret is not so secret, and it is easy to do. First give love, and then accept love that is given. Falling in love and finding love are two different things and giving love is another story. All of it can be easy or difficult depending on your mindset and these are the things it takes to manifest love.
How to Fall in Love
Sometimes, people feel alone and want more love in their lives. People in long term relationships can give decent advice, but sometimes, their advice is not so great. If someone tells you that nobody is in your life because you act desperate or want love too much so you automatically repel it, thank them, and disregard what they said. The first way to attract love is not to pretend you don’t want it in your life, but to be receptive to love. Love starts with you. Open yourself to love, be fair about imperfections, and don’t rigidly reject everybody who isn’t a ‘type.”
Open Yourself
Sometimes, being open is as simple as wanting love. Sometimes, it is as complex as doing daily affirmations before you begin your day. Each of us opens ourselves to new experiences in different ways, but one simple way to open yourself to falling in love is to be receptive to new love experiences. Maybe you prefer to be wined and dined, but someone offers you love by planting a garden for you. Maybe you have never accepted the love of a pet before, but you feel ready to. Be open to different kinds of love from different creatures, and you will have more love. To read about the Minor Arcana on love, see here: Minor Arcana Cards for Love
Be Fair About Flaws
Nobody is perfect- not even you! There are some things that are dealbreakers in relationships, for sure, but there comes a time when we have to examine our own biases to see if they repel people. If you reject people who are not as wealthy as you are, maybe you are not seeking love, but to be surrounded by money. Psychology Today lists seven top dealbreakers uncovered in a study, which include, arrogance, abuse, filth, being too clingy, hostility, lack of ambition, and being unattractive. If somebody has one ugly toe, does that mean you can’t love them, though? Never settle for an unfulfilling relationship, but don’t be so picky that nobody can approach you. Read the study from Psychology Today here: The 7 Biggest Deal-Breakers in Relationships | Psychology Today
Look Past Your “Type”
Some people say they have a type. Maybe they only date blondes, or maybe they only associate with other people who do the same type of art that they do, but some people limit their relationships to only being with people who do things exactly one way, and that's the worst mistake to make when you're trying to open yourself to love. Don't paint yourself into a corner and limit your relationships. Look past your type and you will find more love. One Zodiac sign but last to surround themselves with a variety of different kinds of people is Aquarius and you can read about them here: Aquarius Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility
How Can I Find Love?
Finding love is easy. It's all around you. There are just a few simple things that you can do to find the love that is already surrounding you. Be receptive, expand your definition of love, and give unlimited love to all life forms that you can.
Be Receptive
Being receptive just means that you are willing to receive. Sometimes, we close ourselves off from other people. This can be a defense mechanism that feels necessary after some trauma, or recent losses. This is not sustainable in the long term, however. Eventually you are going to have to open yourself up to other people again. While you are healing, if you need to self-isolate, that's OK. Just make sure to open yourself up again when the healing is complete. Love is always surrounding you no matter what. Even after you've gone through a horrifying breakup, other people love you. To read how the Zodiac Signs break up, see here: Breakups with Each of the Signs
Expand Your Definition of Love
Love comes in many different forms. Some people who are single and don't want to be think that romantic love is the only type of love that exists, but they are wrong. People in healthy friendships with you love you. Your pets love you. Members of your family love you. Even some if your teachers, fellow students, and coworkers love you. Understanding that all forms of relationships can be filled with love is an excellent way of finding love. Chances are that love is already there and you just didn't realize it. One way to find hidden truths is to consult the Tarot Cards and you can read Tarot interpretations here: A Quick Guide to Tarot Cards and their Meanings
Give Unlimited Love
One way to find love is to give love limitlessly. Some people think that rationing how much love they give will protect them, but it will really just isolate them. While it is true that not everybody deserves your time, or attention, that doesn't mean that you cannot behave in loving ways. You can even give love to people you have been hurt by without directly being involved with them. If you love someone who suffers from an addiction, you can donate time or resources to a cause that helps people with their same addiction, and that shows a lot of love. One Zodiac sign that is known for valuing love is Libra and you can read about them here: Libra Traits and Love Compatibility
How to Give Love
Giving love comes naturally to some people, but to some other people it's more difficult. There are a couple of simple things that you can do to give lots of love. Once you give that love you will start to receive love. Never hesitate to be the first one to share love and make sure to give your love without any expectations.
Be the First to Share
When you are the first one to share love, you create love where previously there was none. During times when you feel alone, find someone else who is more alone than you are, and help them to feel less lonely. If you love all by yourself, adopt a homeless animal and give it a chance at a better life, and that will create love. If you know somebody is hurting, reach out to them, and comfort them and that will create love. Creating love does not have to take a long time and it does not have to be difficult. All it requires is for you to reach out to someone who needs you and to care about them. One Zodiac sign known for reaching out to others is Pisces and you can read about them here: Pisces Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility
Give Love Selflessly
Reciprocity is important in relationships, however, when you love somebody, you should never think about whether or not you give more love or they give more love. Share all the love you have to give when you are involved with someone. As time goes on, if they are selfish with you, that means that they don't love you and you don't have to stay in a relationship with them if it doesn’t feel right. However, if you're in a healthy relationship share your love with all of your might, and people who love you in return will do the same. One creature that symbolizes love is the cardinal and you can read about them here: What is Red Cardinal Spiritual Meaning?
Meditations for Manifesting Love
To do meditations to manifest love, sit comfortably at a place of sanctuary. This can be a place in your home, in nature, or even in a church, temple, mosque, or grove. Some people believe that the entire earth is sacred. Wherever you believe is a place of sanctuary, settle in there to do your love meditation. Close your eyes and imagine yourself connected to every other being in the entire universe. Then imagine the source of all life flowing through each being and into the next. This sacred life force is held together by love. Visualize allowing the sacred force of life that unites everything in the universe to flow freely through you and imagine receiving it from the being next to you that shares it with you. Next time you feel alone, or like closing yourself off from others, do this meditation, and it will help you open yourself to giving and receiving love.
How Do You Make Him Fall in Love with You?
“Do I love him? Yes! Then why doesn’t he love me and what can I do about it?” A question many people ask is how to make someone love you who doesn’t. You can’t. If you discover you have fallen for someone who just doesn’t want you, when they make it clear they don’t want a relationship, the thing to do is focus on the love you have for them. Let them step away to find the love they want from the people they want it with. Before you decide this, make sure to tell them how you feel because they deserve the chance to decide for themselves whether to be in a relationship with you. To learn about telling them you love them see here: When Should I Tell Him I Love Him?
Love is so many things. In our lives, we love many people from the time we are born until the moment when we take our last breath. We love our friends, family, lovers, and our animal kin. Some people focus very heavily on romance, forgetting all of the other great people they have in their lives. To truly manifest love, we must always remember how many different kinds of love that we share with so many different beings. People and relationships are imperfect, but love is perfect no matter what happens. There will be times in your life when it seems like you have nothing else but the love of the good people who you have in your life, and they make everything worth it. May you be open to great love, and may you share that love with many creatures on this planet. So Be It.
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About the Author: Lady Saoirse has studied magic and lore for most of her life but started walking her own Magical Path after being spiritually reborn in the desert. Today she is a High Priestess for The Temple of the Goddess, she is a psychic advisor and spiritual counselor, she shares her gifts as a Psychic and Content Writer for Spiritual Blossom, and she writes for The Green Egg. She has written for Mysticsense and PaganPagesOrg emag.
