Each Zodiac Sign has unique ways they approach love and romance. Scorpio is a mysterious, observant Sign that needs relationships with people who they can trust. Learn who is the best and the absolute worst love matches for Scorpio.
So, you want to date a Scorpio. Are you sure about that? Not just anybody is compatible with this sensitive, observant Sign. They aren’t all that, though. They’re emotional, paranoid, and jealous. Still interested? Then join SpiritualBlossom to find out the best and worst love matches for Scorpio. Find out some good and bad Scorpio traits and what it takes to make a romance work with them. Discover their best and worst matches in the Zodiac. Almost everybody wants to date a Scorpio, but not everyone is special enough to have what it takes. Read on to see if you are that special person.
A Little About Scorpio
When you meet a Scorpio, you will remember them. They have good traits and bad traits. These alluring people are highly observant individuals, but they're not all good. They can be jealous and downright paranoid. Read on to find out some of their best and worst traits.
Their Best Traits
Scorpios are very good at presenting the best side of themselves. They are known for their gentle sensitivity and highly observant nature. They are also very protective people.
Sensitive
Scorpio has very powerful emotions. These emotions stand out as a big part of their personality. They are also sensitive to other people's emotions, and a lot of Scorpios call themselves empaths. It's very important that you be considerate of a Scorpio's feelings, because they will be very considerate of yours. They can be some of the greatest friends and lovers, but not with just anyone. You have to care about the way that they feel as much as the way they care about you. Some people feel like they're walking on egg shells around a Scorpio. If that's how you feel, you're not the person for them. Read more about Scorpio here: Scorpio Traits and Love Compatibility
Observant
One thing you will notice about Scorpios is they don't always have to talk at every gathering. They're quiet because they're paying attention to what's going on. If they know you and love you, they can talk to you all night, though. They are excellent listeners because they want to know what's going on. They know the best way to do that is to be quiet and observe. Some Scorpios seem to have the uncanny ability to become invisible while they're someplace. They're good at blending in, and better taking things in. If you want the truth about what's going on, ask a Scorpio, because they know.
Protective
If a Scorpio loves you, they will want to protect you. Being an observant individual alerts them to all the things that can go wrong. They want to make sure nothing bad happens to you, because they want you to be with them forever. They want you to be happy, healthy, and well taken care of. They happily step up and do all these things for you if you let them. They also expect you to make intelligent decisions instead of taking stupid chances. They understand that we can't control everything, but they are going to keep all of the unsafe things out of their lives and the lives of their loved ones that they possibly can. Read about Scorpio’s Zodiac flowers here: What is the Best Scorpio Flower?
Their Worst Traits
After reading all this, you might think that a Scorpio is the ultimate friend and lover. Hold on a minute, They're not perfect. If they allow it, their sensitivity can make them emotional basket cases. They can take their caution overboard and be downright paranoid. They can go off the deep end from protectiveness and be extremely jealous.
Emotional
Remember we said that some people feel like they're walking on egg shells around a Scorpio? Well, sometimes you have to. There are things they don't want you to say in their presence because it will trigger them. There are also things they don't ever want you to do because they don't want to be upset. When they get upset, it's not beneath them to pitch tantrums, get revenge, or even give you the complete silent treatment. The silent treatment can actually be a more welcome option. At least they're honest about their feelings, but they're not always objective about them, so beware.
Paranoid
Scorpios spend a lot of time looking for problems. Their sensitivity can make them downright anxious sometimes. They worry so much, and look for so many problems, they can convince themselves something is wrong when everything is actually just fine. They are smart enough to know that anything could go wrong at any minute, but, can be so jittery they don't understand that doesn't necessarily mean it will. When your Scorpio is paranoid about something and all is well, simply take their hand and reassure them. Remind them that together you are an unbeatable team, and you can fix any problem that might arise. Read about the dark side of Scorpio here: The Dark Side of Scorpios and How to Deal with It
Jealous
Sometimes, Scorpios are downright jealous. If they like you, they don't want to hear about people who would compete with them for your attention. Sometimes they're happiest when it's just you and them. They are very faithful individuals, and not only do they expect the same faithfulness, they do deserve it. Even if you're not doing anything to make them question your fidelity, they might do it anyway. If they find you attractive, they may assume that everybody does and they won't like that. Remind them that they are certainly allowed to date someone who is unattractive instead of you. That will shut them up for about a minute.
What it Takes to Make it Work
Scorpios value relationships with people who are serious about relationships. They love to have fun, but casual relationships are not fun for them. They value commitment, trust, and want to feel safe and secure in their own environment. Their personal life needs to be rock solid. Some of them, almost never, if ever, invite people into their homes. If you're invited, that means they're serious about you. If you want them to keep you around, you need to demonstrate that you're serious about them too. Read about your Venus Sign and what it says about love here: What Do Venus Signs Say About Love?
Honesty, and trust that's built slowly over time demonstrates to a Scorpio that you are serious about a relationship with them. They don't want to hear you talking about your friend's personal lives to them, because that makes them concerned that you might talk about their personal business. They want someone with some self respect who they're attracted to, but they also want someone who won't go out of their way to make them jealous. Scorpios date and marry people who become lifelong partners and teammates with them. If you don't have what it takes to do that, they will realize it right away. Don't waste their time. Are you incompatible with a Scorpio? There may be help. Learn how to fix Zodiac Sign incompatibility here: Star Sign Compatibility - When Your Signs Clash
Scorpio’s Best Matches
So, after considering all these things, who are the best matches for Scorpio? Three Zodiac Signs that have very high chances of long-term success with a Scorpio are Pisces, Taurus, and Cancer.
Cancer
Cancer and Scorpio are fellow Water Signs. Water Signs are sensitive people who value deep emotional connections. They also need a lot of trust and comfort in their relationships. Life needs to feel predictable and secure for them. They forge an amazing partnership because they understand these things on a soul level. They both take a lot of time deciding whether they're going to commit to a relationship or not and then they give 110% to every relationship they're in. They will drop whatever they're doing to be there for the people they love, and don't have a problem putting themselves last in the relationship. This is a match made in heaven.
Taurus
This is a Zodiac Sign that was born to nurture and care for people they love. Scorpios love that. Taurases are creatures of habit, and Scorpios love that predictability. Taurases are talented with building a fortress like home filled with comforts. Scorpios love to partake of the comforts of the Taurases home. As a matter of fact, Scorpios love to build a home with Taurases. They both understand the need for privacy, the need for creature comforts, and that home is a sanctuary. Neither one of them will tolerate having the sanctuary of their home disrespected or violated, and they build a beautiful life together. Read more about Taurus here: Taurus Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility
Pisces
Pisces is another Water Sign, and they are highly intuitive individuals. Their intuition makes them downright empathic, and they can feel and anticipate other’s feelings. Scorpio appreciates the consideration and sensitivity of Pisces. Pisces love to do things for other people. When they see a problem, they want to fix it. They also need to pull back and recharge their emotional batteries when they are overstimulated and overwhelmed from doing this too much. Scorpios provide the perfect cocoon-like environment of safety and solitude for them to do this. They build a world between the worlds together, and spend many happy years and peace and quiet.
Scorpio’s Worst Matches
Would you believe that some people just don't go well with Scorpios? It's true. Sagittarius, Gemini, and Aries create a match made in hell for hell on earth with Scorpios.
Sagittarius
Freedom loving Sagittarians are spontaneous individuals who thrive on adrenaline rushes. Scorpio finds all of that exhausting, and they don't understand it at all. Sagittarins have been known to disappear and expect people in relationships with them to just tolerate it. Scorpio feels like Sagittarius skips out on relationships when they do that, and they don't like that. Sagittarians feel suffocated by Scorpios desire to know what's going on, and Scorpios feel like Sagittarius has something to hide. If these two are on the same page about everything, they can work things out, but that doesn't always happen. Read more about Sagittarius here: Sagittarius Traits and Love Compatibility
Gemini
One of the biggest gossips in the Zodiac, who seems to constantly be surrounded by the general public, is Gemini. All of this is a massive violation of privacy for Scorpios. Scorpios don't need to be surrounded by people day and night. Gemini's will feel downright isolated if they don't get that type of socialization often enough. This creates major disagreements between these two Signs. Scorpios also don't like to hear people's personal business and it makes them concerned that Gemini is going to blurt out something Scorpios don't want other people to know. If these two can balance Scorpio’s need for privacy with Gemini's need to be social butterflies, these two can work things out.
Aries
Scorpio needs to feel emotionally secure and like they live in an environment that isn’t out of control. Well, Aries needs the opposite, and these two can erupt into World War Three if allowed. Like Sagittarius, Aries needs a lot of freedom and they are very spontaneous. They don't like being told what to do. Quite the contrary, Aries usually cause the shots. That's Scorpio's job for the most part. These two can have a massive tug of war for control. If these two can balance their differences, they make the ultimate team. They have a lot of difficulties that both sides have a hard time getting through, so they don't always team up well, if at all. Read more about Aries here: Aries Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility
A Last Word
Some people say Scorpio's sensitivity makes them extremely intense and that can be overwhelming. Well, get over it. Scorpios care very deeply, and if they weren't sensitive people, they couldn't do that. Sure, they go overboard and lose their temper sometimes, but so does anybody else, regardless of Zodiac Sign. Scorpio just has a special way of doing that. It can be a very big surprise when they do, because sometimes they seem so calm, cool and collected, and the next moment. They can completely fall to pieces over something that seems very small the next. They could use help with emotional control sometimes. Read more about that here:The Ten Best Ways to Control Emotions
It really is worth it to tolerate these difficult moments that they have. Every Zodiac Sign has their moments. Scorpios make it more than worth it to stick around and put up with it though. All they need to know is that you love them as much as they love you and that they don't need to question your loyalty. Early on in the relationship while you're dating, it might take a while for them to believe that you are loyal to them. Getting through that is worth it, so buckle down. If you fall for a Scorpio and they fall for you, you are in for many years of deep love, deep devotion, and maybe if you're lucky, a lifetime commitment. What could be better? Do you have chemistry with your Scorpio? Find out here: How to Tell if You Have Relationship Chemistry
People want to date a Scorpio because of their intensity, sensitivity, and serious focus on relationships. Not everyone has what it takes to do that though. Some Zodiac Signs like Aries have problems and can't work things out with them. Some Zodiac Signs like Pisces have a natural chemistry with Scorpios and things seem to fall together with them seamlessly. If you and your Scorpio really love each other, regardless of Zodiac Sign, you can work together and be together for life. If a Scorpio loves you, they will love you forever, no matter what. May you have many good years together.
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About the Author: Lady Saoirse has studied magic and lore for most of her life but started walking her own Magical Path after being spiritually reborn in the desert. Today she is a High Priestess for The Temple of the Goddess, she is a psychic advisor and spiritual counselor, she shares her gifts as a Psychic and Content Writer for Mysticsense and SpiritualBlossom, and she writes for PaganPages.Org emag and Green Egg Magazine.
