Gemini Dating and Love - Their Best Love Matches

Each Zodiac Sign has unique ways they approach love and romance. Gemini is a fun, intellectually curious, sociable Sign that needs relationships with people who excite and mentally challenge them. Learn who is the best and the absolute worst love matches for Gemini.

So, you want to date a Gemini. Are you sure about that? Not just anybody is compatible with this smart, funny Sign. They aren’t all that, though. They are high energy, oh high demand, and can be downright mean and think it’s funny. Still interested? Then Join SpiritualBlossom to find out the best and worst love matches for a Gemini. Find out some good and bad Gemini traits and what it takes to make a romance work with them. Discover their best and worst matches in the Zodiac. Almost everybody wants to date a Gemini, but not everyone is special enough to have what it takes. Read on to see if you are that special person.

A Little About Gemini

Gemini is the 3rd Zodiac Sign and they have good and bad traits. They are incredible mediators, seeming to know how to fix any problem, but they can be awful gossips who create more problems than they solve. Read on to find out their best and worst traits.

Their Best Traits

Not only are Gemini's terrific mediators, they are social butterflies with so many interests they can't list them all. Read on to find out more about these interesting people.

Mediators

Geminis may have their own views and opinions about things, but they have a natural way of setting those aside to try and make everything harmonious. They can see other people's points of view, and when they see fights, they instinctively seem to know how to solve them. Whenever there's a problem, it seems like people call on a Gemini because they can be objective and look beneath the surface to find out how to fix things. They know how to stay impartial and be understanding of both sides of a dispute. In business deals, and relationships, and in communities, people count on Geminis to help them fix things. Read more about Gemini here: Gemini Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility

Social Butterflies

Some people get along with pretty much everyone, never seem to meet a stranger, and never seem to get tired of being surrounded by slews of people. They are probably all Geminis. Geminis bring a special energy to any group you have, and part of the reason is because Geminis naturally love to be around people. They're not just seeking to be the center of attention, either. They love to listen as much as they love to share. Gemini's just have a natural way of connecting with pretty much everyone. But a dirty little secret is they would feel terribly lonely if it weren't for other people!

Varied Interests

Gemini is ruled by Mercury and they are also an Air Zodiac sign. This makes them have a naturally curious mind. They always seem to be reading something new, looking into new classes, or looking into new hobbies. They have the need to nourish and expand their minds and experience new things on an intellectual level. Gemini's are the ultimate lifelong learners. If they are under stimulated or under challenged it will cause problems for them emotionally. Read about dark Gemini traits here: The Dark Side of Geminis and How to Deal with It

Their Worst Traits

After reading all these amazing things about Gemini, you probably think that they are the greatest human beings who were ever born. Not so fast. On the dark side, they get bored extremely easily, can have a very mean sense of humor, and can be the worst gossips you could ever hope to meet.

Bored Easily

Geminis get bored if they're not constantly being stimulated. On one hand it's a good thing because they lead a very rich and interesting life. On the other hand, God help you. If they do get bored. If they get bored in a relationship, don't put it past them to cheat or just leave without explanation. If they get bored with a job or a course of study and that is not remedied they will slack off or quit. They're not trying to be unfaithful or unreliable. They just intellectually and emotionally need a lot of stimulation. They didn’t ask to be the way they are, they just know what to do if they get bored.

Mean Sense of Humor

Geminis are great to have around during times of tragedy because they know how to get through it with a sense of humor. Unfortunately, they will laugh at you as much as they laugh with you, and that can hurt. Some people really like this because Geminis can teach you not to take yourself too seriously. Unfortunately, if you're sensitive, their fun making doesn't feel like fun and it really hurts. Sometimes the more upset you get, the harder they go after you when they are in this kind of a mood. Some people absolutely love this about Geminis though. Gemini’s can be on the cusp with Taurus too, and you can read about them here: What Does it Mean to Be a Taurus and Gemini Cusp?

Gossips

Let's be fair for a minute. Geminis are in a terrible position because everybody comes to them. Everybody dumps their personal business on Geminis. Combine this with the mean sense of humor that Geminis have, and a Gemini is the ultimate gossip. They know everything about everyone and they don't always keep it to themselves. You might assume that they are compassionate because of how they behave when they are listening to you, but sometimes they listen intently because they just want you to spell the tea. ALL OF IT. Part of the reason they are popular is because they make people laugh and when they gossip they will be laughing at people instead of with them. That saying “If you can’t say anything nice, come sit by me” was made for Gemini!

What it Takes to Make it Work

To make things work with interesting and imperfect Gemini, you're going to have to have a very high tolerance level. You're going to have to have a high tolerance level for a revolving door of ever changing interests that Geminis have. Some people think this makes Geminis fascinating people, though. Other people find it frustrating and exhausting. You're also going to have to have a high tolerance level for their off color sense of humor. If you don't like mean jokes and you don't want someone to tease you, you're better off not spending time with a Gemini. Geminis may heal you because they make you laugh so much. Find out how laughter heals here: Why the Best Medicine is Laughter- How Laughter Heals

If you want a relationship with someone who has a lot of energy, is very interesting, and loves to do new different things, you are going to really enjoy a relationship with Gemini. Just be prepared, they are very spontaneous. If they love you, they are going to want to take you along for their fun adventures and it's going to break their heart if you don't want to go. You have to catch their eye though. You have to be interesting, and you have to bring something to the table that challenges and stimulates them intellectually. Aphrodisiacs might help get your Gemini in the mood. Learn more here: How to Use an Aphrodisiac for Love and Attraction

Gemini’s Best Matches

So who is a great match with Gemini? Although they are well known for getting along well with pretty much anyone, three Signs that make them happiest in a relationship are Libra, Leo, and Aries.

Libra

Libras and Geminis go together like chocolate and peanut butter, or is it fire and brimstone? They're alike in some ways, and they support each other in other ways. Geminis and Libras are both intellectual Air Signs and they are great at communicating. They both love the open, honest communication they have with each other. Geminis appreciate the fact that Libras can handle the darker side of their sense of humor and Libras seem to egg them on when they're acting mean, because, let's face it, sometimes it's funny. They both thrive in groups and they make a wonderful life together.

Leo

If anyone loves to laugh and have fun, it's a Leo. Leos bring something to the table that Gemini's really appreciate. Leo's lock in and are one of the most loyal Signs. This is very helpful because it seems like Geminis are always changing and reinventing themselves. If a Leo loves you, they will love every version of you and stick around through thick and thin. They don't care where you go as long as you go together. They will follow you to the ends of the earth and be with you forever. Read more about Leo here: Leo Traits and Love Compatibility

Aries

If any Sign can understand the rougher side of the Gemini sense of humor, it's Aries. Aries gets a bad rap for being harsh sometimes, but they just have a natural strength about them. They appreciate the fact that somebody else has the emotional strength to tolerate their darker sense of humor. They also love to laugh and are high energy. Both signs are very adventurous, love to travel and try new things, and are bored if things stay the same for too long. Together, they are the envy of everyone else. These two make great partners as friends, lovers, and soulmates for life.

Gemini’s Worst Matches

Not everyone can handle Gemini at their worst, let alone at their best. Capricorn, Scorpio, and Pisces are three Signs that have a hard time being in relationships with Geminis. Read on to find out why.

Capricorn

Capricorns spend a lot of time being as practical as they possibly can. They have a set way of doing things and they're really great at keeping rules. They spend a lot of time working and getting a lot accomplished. They're also typically in charge of people, and they like it when people are easy to control. Along comes Gemini, getting, but seems to be just as much accomplished and they're all over the place doing 1,000 other things at the same time. Gemini's highly changeable nature frustrates and exhausts Capricorns. These two can have a lot of difficulty getting along. If Capricorn can laugh along with Gemini, they might be able to make it work- for about a minute. Read more about Capricorn here: Capricorn Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility

Scorpio

Scorpio is one of the sensitive Zodiac Signs that is known for their high intelligence. They can be highly mysterious because they spend so much time observing and even more time keeping things to themselves. Then there's Gemini spreading everyone's business around with their gossip and hopping from friend to friend and having the best time in the world. Scorpios find all of this untrustworthy. To be in a relationship with the Gemini, Scorpio would have to be surrounded by slews of people regularly, which Scorpio is very uncomfortable with. If Gemini can accommodate Scorpio’s privacy needs, they may stand a chance in hell of working things out.

Pisces

Another sensitive Sign that needs quiet time is Pisces. They somehow manage to solve as many problems as Gemini's, but they tend to do it on an individual level as opposed to solving huge problems for groups. Pisces connects intimately, one person at a time, but they do it so often they get overwhelmed and need to retreat to solitude and peaceful quiet with one or two people. Then Gemini brings in everyone in town. Pisces has a hard time handling the biting sense of humor of Geminis sometimes. Quite often these two can't even get a relationship off the ground. Gemini will have to really be head over heels for Pisces and be sensitive to their needs. Read more about Pisces here: Pisces Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility

A Last Word

Loving a Gemini isn’t exactly easy, but how can you help but love them? Sure, they are terrible gossips, and have been known to flirt unapologetically with pretty much everyone they cat- but so what? Their plethora of interests make them fascinating people to talk to and there is never a dull moment when they are in your life. They truly want people in their lives who love them best of all and can experience all the wonderful things life has to offer. Be careful though. If you bore them, they will never forget it, but they will forget you. The Major Arcana can help with heartbreak. Find out how here: Major Arcana Readings about Heartbreak

They may have a revolving door of friendly acquaintances, but that’s because people love them so much. Friendly acquaintances can are great for business networking, but besides that, Geminis understand everyone has fascinating stories to tell, and they are happy to listen…and sometimes share those stories. Sometimes, they don’t though. If you are someone they tell everything to, they invite you everywhere, and they act like they can’t do without you, congratulations, you are one of the lucky people who has the love of a Gemini. So, buckle up. They will drag you every interesting place on earth they can, and they will keep you giggling the whole time.

Gemini is a funny, high energy sign who does really well with people. They're not perfect, and they can be complete gossips, although some people love that. Some Zodiac Signs like Libra do great with Geminis and Signs like Scorpio can have a lot of problems with them. To date or have a long term relationship with a Gemini, you're going to have to have a very high tolerance for their sarcastic sense of humor, high energy levels, and ever changing interests. Life with a Gemini is never boring, and they will take you around the world. If they love you. Lucky you!

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About the Author: Lady Saoirse has studied magic and lore for most of her life but started walking her own Magical Path after being spiritually reborn in the desert. Today she is a High Priestess for The Temple of the Goddess, she is a psychic advisor and spiritual counselor, she shares her gifts as a Psychic and Content Writer for Mysticsense and SpiritualBlossom, and she writes for PaganPages.Org emag and Green Egg Magazine.