Everybody talks about the positive traits of Geminis, but they aren’t all laughs and pep talks. Find out about the negative personality traits of Gemini and how to deal with them.
Billed as the most charming sign of the Zodiac, Geminis are known as fun people who seek friendships and intellectual stimulation all their lives. They are energetic, great mediators, and even better mentors, but they are not all fun and games. Even these fabulous people have a dark side and that’s what we are here to warn you about today. Join SpiritualBlossom to learn the negative traits of Geminis. Learn what Geminis are, and their best traits. Then learn their worst traits and how to deal with that. Geminis might act like they are perfect, but we know better. Read on to find out what dark characteristics of Geminis to beware of.
What’s a Gemini?
Between the days of May 21st and June 20th, the powers that be give special people to mankind. They're called Geminis. Gemini is the third Zodiac sign and that sign is ruled by the planet Mercury. Mercury instills high energy levels and those it governs and also a high level of nervousness. Combine that nervousness with the high energy and you get someone who does not want to stop doing the things that they love. It also gives the gift of excellent communication, intellect, and thinking. It gives them good analytical skills, adaptability, and a high level of curiosity.
Gemini is also what is called a Mutable Sign. These are the chameleons of the Zodiac. They are highly flexible and they have a highly changeable nature. They are able to adapt easily, need constant stimulation so they can transform, and they help to prepare other people for necessary changes. This also makes them flaky, indecisive, and wishy washy in some situations. They don't mind if people think this of them though, because they know they won't be left in the dust when things change. Read more about Gemini here: Gemini Zodiac Traits and Love Compatibility
Gemini’s Five Best Traits
So the topic of this article is the worst traits of Gemini. It's just not fair to talk about somebody's worst traits before talking about their best traits. Besides, Geminis are a lot of fun and we don't want to upset them or else they may not come around and make things as enjoyable. Not only are they fun, they're good mediators and mentors. They're flexible people, and they have curious, thirsty minds.
Fun
Geminis, for some reason, have unusual senses of humor. It seems like they will laugh about nearly anything, and it seems like there's nobody who they won't make laugh. They find fun in the most mundane of places. They can make work fun no matter how difficult the tasks. They can make learning fun no matter how much you're struggling with the curriculum. They can even make it fun when you have to do something you don't want to, like diet, work out, or go to the doctor. What would we do without our Geminis?
Great Mediators
The intellectual power that Geminis have make them good at finding solutions. They're also so good with people, they're some of the best listeners in the Zodiac. These two traits combined make them great mediators. They can solve almost any problem, dissolve almost any dispute, and make almost anybody feel great. They can be completely impartial in an argument and smooth almost any ruffled feathers. One Zodiac sign that's also pretty good at that, but not nearly as good as Geminis, is Libra, and you can read about them here: Libra Traits and Love Compatibility
Flexible
Being a mutable sign makes Geminis flexible. They are open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, and they don't assume that they always know best. This makes them capable of adapting to difficult situations and landing on their feet when the way that they have always done things falls out from under them. They're pretty easy going, seem highly non judgmental, and we'll try pretty much anything at least once. It's not that they don't have their preferences, it's just that being a Mutable Sign means that they're not as set in their ways as some Signs are.
Curious
Being ruled by Mercury gives Geminis hungry minds. They are always looking for new things to enjoy, new things to learn, and new things to understand. They will be the first ones to show up at international festivals, new music genre concerts that they've never heard before, and for adult classes when they get through with their higher education. They love to keep their minds busy and this translates into a busy life. They love to pick people's brains and like to be lifelong learners, and you can be too. Learn the benefits of that Geminis already understand here: The Fine Art of Lifelong Learning
Good Mentors
Gemini’s ability to listen, adapt, and constantly learn new things makes them amazing mentors. They love to absorb knowledge and information, but they also love to share it. They are almost always happy to teach anyone how to do anything. Their mediation skills have already made you comfortable with them, probably, so you're more liable to listen to what they have to say than someone who doesn't listen to anyone else. They also make learning a lot of fun and they don't mind adjusting their approach to accommodate different learning styles.
Gemini’s Ten Worst Traits
Before you decide that a Gemini is the answer to all your prayers, they do come with a warning label. They are no more perfect than any other Zodiac Sign even though they might make you think they are. Their positive qualities can become negative when they become two faced or sneaky. They can also be the worst flirts in the Zodiac. Read on to find out a total of ten of the worst traits of Geminis, just in case you decide to run for the hills.
Two-Faced
Geminis seem to change personalities by the minute. One minute, they are these unbelievably great listeners, solving problems for people. The next, they will be using personal information against those very same people, to make fun of them to their faces. What gives? Gemini’s symbol is the Twins- two different people- for this very reason. They are just naturally drawn to be a paradox within themselves. Tell your “twin” they better have the evil twin in check if you only want to be around the good twin- and don’t tolerate any evil twin behavior. Speaking of evil, would you like to know the truth about demons and evil spirits? Find it here: What’s a Demon? The Truth About Wicked Spirits
Sneaky
Geminis can’t seem to make up their minds what they want to do- and they will keep people in the dark about it. So what if you are married and you have a right to know? You will find out what they are up to when they are good and ready for you to- if they decide to enlighten you. Geminis are busy minding other people’s business by mediating and mentoring, but what they do is nobody else’s business. Unless you are a talented detective and can figure out their next move, you are going to have to accept it. Until they change their mind about what they are doing, that is…
Selfish
You would think that someone who is such a great listener and mentor would be the most selfless person in the Zodiac. Geminis can be downright selfish when they want to be. You wouldn't think they would be, but they are. It's just one side of the Twins that they embody. One minute, they will be listening intently to the complaint that you have. The next, they will be making fun of you for it with the guy down the hall at work. They're always looking to have fun, they need mental stimulation, and they get bored very easily. They can be downright self-centered whenever these things happen. Stand up for yourself to them. Find out how here: How to Stand Up for Yourself
Meddling
Knowing how good they are at mediating can go to Gemini’s heads. They will stick their nose where it doesn't belong, assuming that they know best. Keep in mind that Geminis aren't the only sign to have ever done this. It can just be characteristic of some of them. When they try to put themselves where they don't belong, making other people's business their business, tell them to buzz off. Tell them that you did not ask for their help and they need to respect your privacy. Geminis don't like to be embarrassed in public because they're so sociable. Tell them off in front of people if you have to. That'll teach them.
Self-Important
The selfishness and egotism of Geminis makes them feel like what they're doing is more important than it is sometimes. Part of the reason this happens is because of the influence of the planet Mercury. They are so focused on staying busy and getting things done, they forget that the sun does not revolve around them. So, if they're driving you crazy with this and they won't get the hint, keep it real and tell them that their ego is getting the better of them. Remind them that the earth revolves around the sun, the sun does not revolve around them, and they need to get over themselves. Share this article with them to help them defeat their egos: Humbleness - The Art of Defeating Your Ego
Flirtatious
As sociable as Geminis are, a lot of people like them. A lot of people may find them attractive because of their personality. So, they have a lot of romantic options that someone who is not as much of a crowd pleaser will have. If they are bored with their significant other, it's not below them to flirt with someone else or even cheat. They need stimulation regularly and that includes romantic stimulation. If you're dating a Gemini with the roving eye and you don't want an open relationship, lay down the law. Let them know that they can have you or someone else, but you're not going to stick around for them to be a cheat. If you're their latest interest, and you're not interested, Just tell them no. They do have other options, not just you.
Impulsive Decisions
When a Gemini gets excited about something, they might lose their head. This isn't always a bad thing. Spur of the moment vacations, last minute gifts to someone who they love, or being inspired to pursue a new dream are things that make life worth living. Blowing every penny they have at a casino, dumping their significant other for somebody they barely know, or packing up all their possessions and moving cross country without a job is another story, and these are all things that a Gemini might do. Pull your Gemini aside and talk them down when you can see them about to leap before they look. They're not stupid, they're just excited. Encourage them to patiently plan for new things and find out how to be patient here: Learning the Fine Art of Patience
Mouthy
Having a highly intelligent brain that never shuts up might translate to a mouth that doesn't want to close in Gemini sometimes. They can get excited about something and ramble on and on to the point that you want to throw up. That's the best case scenario. Worst case, they get downright sarcastic and mean and won't stop. This is because they think it's funny to push your buttons. Don't think that you have to be a victim to this. You can counter it very easily. You can either push their buttons right back saying things that are equally mean and flat out ask them, ”How does that feel?” You can tell them to shut up, or even walk away and refuse to engage when they're behaving this way. Let them find someone else to run their mouth to.
Gossips
Geminis love juicy gossip. They don't seem to generate much gossip, but they certainly do collect it and they love to share it. Some people love to hear their gossip because the Gemini can be downright hilarious when they're sharing it. Other people are afraid of being the butt of Gemini's joke next time Gemini wants to gossip. There are easy ways to counter this. Look at them with an unamused straight face and say “That's just downright mean and I don't want to hear it.” Don't think you're going to prevent them from gossiping though. Don't tell them anything personal if you don't want it spread around next time they feel like gossiping. You can also learn to care less when they gossip. Find out how here: I Couldn’t Care Less - When Caring Too Much Hurts
Emotionally Needy
If you leave Geminis alone for too long- meaning a minute more than they want- they will feel like they are dying of isolation. This is just how your Gemini is. If you need your alone time, you can just turn off the phone and not answer the door when they come around. You can also help them set up time with people so they don't feel neglected. Surprising them with the cutest puppy you can find or paying for lunch for them and their mother as a way to get some time away from them works so they’re not overly needy with your time.
Geminis are some of the most fun loving people in the Zodiac. They're also some of the biggest gossips, the worst flirts, and easily some of the most emotionally needy people you could ever meet. These horrible behaviors aren't going to go away, but you can deal with them if you're smart. After all, your fun loving Gemini is more than worth it. So stick around and put up with them, why don't you? You won't be sorry.
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About the Author: Lady Saoirse has studied magic and lore for most of her life but started walking her own Magical Path after being spiritually reborn in the desert. Today she is a High Priestess for The Temple of the Goddess, she is a psychic advisor and spiritual counselor, she shares her gifts as a Psychic and Content Writer for Mysticsense and SpiritualBlossom, and she writes for PaganPages.Org emag and Green Egg Magazine.
