One minute, your life is going exactly the way you want it to, and it seems like things are perfect. In the blink of an eye, things can change, though, and leave you wondering how to get things back to the way you want them. If only there were universal laws to keep things just the way you want them to be, that would be perfect but there aren’t! Manifesting reality after changes can be easier said than done, but you really can make it happen.
Change can be something we love or something we hate but change happens even if we don’t mean for it to. Sometimes there is nothing we can do to get things back to the way they were before, and we just have to accept things, and move forward. Letting go of the past and living in the present as we move into our future isn’t always easy, but there are some things you can do to make it easier to deal with while you work at manifesting your reality to make your life the way you want it to be. Letting go and accepting changes to embrace them has to happen even after you have decided how you want things to be once change happens. You are not alone, though, and you can ask the cards for guidance. Then get out there and manifest your intentions. Read on to learn how!
Accept Change to Embrace It
“ Change is the only constant in life. One’s ability to adapt to those changes will determine your success in life.”- Benjamin Franklin
In your visions of destiny did you think that change would be a big part of what was going to come to pass in the future, or did you imagine that you would be in complete control of everything that happened in your life? Unfortunately, we don’t always get to decide everything that goes on in our own lives, and when change happens, all we can do is accept it. When we like a change, it is easy to accept, but when we don’t like a change, accepting it might seem impossible. Some people say they change the things they cannot accept, but still, to be able to do that, we have to accept that something has changed in the first place.
Accepting a change does not mean we say it is something we agree with or that we submit to it. Accepting change just means we accept that sometimes, change is going to happen and we cannot do anything about that. When you give up trying to control things you simply cannot influence, and instead pay attention to what has happened, you give yourself a chance to shift your attention to what can be done to make things better. Just knowing that change is real is enough to make you believe that you can make changes happen and that you have the ability to manifest things to create changes as well. To read about an Angel number that shows up to help you manifest see here: Angel Number Meaning 222 and Symbolism
Change isn’t all bad, even if it is unexpected. If nothing ever changed, we would not have the potential for new experiences or to meet new people to love. We would never grow or improve, and things that we have grown beyond would be shackled to us forever. Change allows new experiences and for us to explore opportunities and parts of ourselves we did not know about before. It allows us the freedom to explore, evolve, and have fuller lives. Change can be the greatest thing that ever happens to us and without it, we would feel trapped in never-ending cycles that go nowhere.
About Letting Go
“ It doesn’t take a lot of strength to hang on. It takes a lot of strength to let go.”- Henry Ford
Letting go of expectations after things suddenly change can be the hardest thing to do, but it is one of the most important things you can do. Holding on to old patterns, dead relationships, and things that no longer work will keep you in the past, and the world will not stop and wait for you to catch up. Letting go of expectations is important, but to move forward after changes, there are other things you can let go of as well. Negative thoughts triggered by fears about changes, and relationships that do not enrich our lives can be let go of. When you walk away from mindsets and people who do not benefit you, make sure to let go of any tendency to feel guilt for doing what is best for you.
Release Harmful Thoughts
The worst thing we can do to ourselves when changes happen is to sink into negative, destructive thinking patterns. The first thing we might want to do is assign blame to somebody when things change and while someone may, indeed have created the change, unless they can fix it, focusing on blame will hold us back from moving forward. Next, when it becomes clear there is nothing you can do to make things go back to the way they were, you might feel some helplessness, but don’t let it make you think that you truly are helpless. None of us can control everything, and plenty of things will happen in life that we cannot influence. Focusing on blaming somebody or believing that since you cannot change one thing that you are completely powerless are things you can let go of immediately. You do have personal power and you can make things happen! To read about an angel number that is all about different ways of thinking see here: 1111 Angel Number Meaning and Symbolism
Walk Away from People
When things go bad in relationships, there is nothing wrong with giving someone a chance to show they have changed their ways, but when they haven’t, sometimes it is necessary to respond by walking away. Sometimes, nothing has changed, and things are the way they always have been, but you have changed and grown beyond your relationship. You might realize that your relationship was toxic, or that what you want in life does not align with what your partner is willing to give you. You might want the same things, but you just don’t want to be together anymore. Whatever it is that happens to change the way you feel about the relationship, there is only one way to move in life, and that is forward. It is okay to walk away from people who you know in your heart do not belong in your life anymore. To read more about breakups see here: Breakups with Each of the Signs
Clear Your Conscience
Don’t feel guilty about things you cannot control. Maybe you worked as hard as you could and tried your best, but you just couldn’t make something happen, and a change you don’t like happened instead. Don’t think for one minute that it’s your fault. We can only control so much, and the fact you tried means you did all you could. If you made a mistake that triggered changes, remember that you are a human being, and we all make mistakes. Live up to your mistake, learn from it, and do what you can to make up for it. Nobody is perfect and no situation is perfect, but we have opportunities to grow, no matter what happens, and that is one thing change allows for. Change creates opportunities for us to have new experiences, and learn new parts of ourselves. Instead of feeling bad about that, embrace the new opportunities that changes allow for growth. One sign that embraces change is Libra and you can read about them here: Libra Traits and Love Compatibility
What Do You Want?
“ The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want.” – Ben Stein
After things have changed, you are going to have to make a decision. Now that things are no longer the way they were before, what do you want? If your marriage ended, do you want to find new love, or do you want to enjoy being single? If you were just laid off from the worst job you ever had, what kind of job would you like now? If you have suffered an injury that means you can no longer play your favorite sport, what do you want to do with the time you previously used to play that sport? Of course, a lot of us just want things to go back to how they were before, and while there is a chance that might happen in the future, sometimes, change is permanent and we have to accept that.
You can’t have everything exactly as you want it, but that doesn’t mean you cannot set new intentions when it becomes obvious life is pushing you forward to new things. Sometimes, the Universe does things to make us uncomfortable enough to make a move when we are not going forward in the way we are supposed to be. We can become so set in our habits that we don’t notice when our psychic selves are telling us it is time to make a change. So sometimes, the Universe will make that change for us. It’s not easy to accept an opportunity for new things when the loss of something we thought was ours forever is new and scary. We can wonder what comes next. Sometimes, the powers that be don’t decide for us what comes next and sometimes, we do! So, what do you want? One sign that in deeply in touch with their hopes and dreams is Sagittarius and you can read about them here: Sagittarius Traits and Love Compatibility
Ask The Cards for Guidance
“ Tarot is an instrument that reveals the hidden things of the world and makes sense out of the visible ones.”- Wald Amberstone
When you are at a loss for what to do after changes, you can always turn to a card reading for guidance. Any card or oracle deck can give answers, but there are some cards from the Major Arcana with extra powerful messages in times of change. To read more about Tarot meanings see here: A Quick Guide to Tarot Cards and their Meanings
The Wheel of Fortune Card
The meaning of the Wheel of Fortune card regarding change depends on whether it is upright or reversed. When it is upright, the Wheel of Fortune card says things are moving forward in your favor. This card indicates good luck, positive change, and excellent opportunities. It’s a great time to take chances to start new things and you are on the road to success. Reversed, the Wheel of Fortune card says progress has either stopped completely by something that came up, or the changes have created difficulties for you. Take a break and assess everything before trying to move forward, because when the Wheel of Fortune is not moving in your favor, that means that it has either stopped completely or it is turning against you. Thankfully, the wheel is always turning, and if you hang in there and diligently work at your goals, the Wheel of Fortune will be moving forward in your favor again soon.
The Star Card
The meaning of the Star tarot card is all about having a good attitude. The Star means having hope and keeping a positive outlook, but it also means you have reason to feel this way because good things are coming your way. The Star future reading is that you have great things to look forward to, and soon you are going to be enjoying those things. So, when you are nervous about changes that have occurred, and you pull the Star card upright, take heart, because the changes are bringing great things your way. The reversed, or upside-down Star card drawn in a reading about changes warns not to sink into despair, or focus on negative thinking. Things may not be as bad as you think they are, and even if things could be better, the wrong attitude will make things worse. Keep your chin up and look for the good things this change has brought because you are going to get through these changes, and everything will work out even better than you had expected.
The Sun Card
The meaning of the Sun tarot card in a reading about changes is all about having confidence and celebrating new things even if they feel strange. Your personal power has brought you great things and these changes are good ones you are being told to enjoy. These changes bring harmony, abundance, and this is a time to celebrate your accomplishments and be proud of yourself. Reversed, the Sun card is warning you not to be overly prideful or you will miss details you need to pay attention to. Maybe you orchestrated some changes, but you are either not finished with the process, or things are not as perfect as you had thought. More work needs to be done before you can stop working on things and you are almost there, just keep working for a bit longer!
The Death Card
The Death card is all about changes, and when it is right side up, it is indicating that these changes are happening to clear the way for new things. Do not hold onto the old way of doing things when this card comes up in a reading about change and do not resist those changes because this is a time of transformation, and it is the end of the way things have been. It is a time of new beginnings, and going with those changes is what this card counsels doing. The Death card reversed points out that your fear of change has you locked into these old ways, and it is keeping you from moving forward. The changes are timely and resisting them has created stagnation. Go ahead and move forward with the changes and step into your wonderful new beginning.
Manifest Your Intentions!
“ All that we are is a result of what we have thought.”- Buddha
So once you accept the changes that have happened and you have thought about what it is you want to manifest, what comes next? Getting guidance is one thing, but when the time to act comes, the cards cannot do that for you. What can you do to manifest your intentions? There are three simple steps you can take! Dream about exactly what you want and how you want it to happen. Then, get started making plans, and finally, get out there and make your intentions become reality!
Dream It
To begin with, take all the time you need to really think about what it is you want to manifest. Think about what it is going to be like once your dream becomes reality and all that it will mean to you. Think about all the little things that are going to be wonderful when it happens, and also all the things it is going to take to get it. Imagine yourself once you have this, and how it is a part of your life. Think about how much it is going to mean to you and how it is going to change your life for the better. Then, think about the difficulties that come along with it, and the responsibilities it will include. Think about things that might not be perfect and remind yourself that you can solve problems if they arise. Most of all, tell yourself this dream will become a reality and you are going to do what it takes to make it happen. To read about one kind of psychic abilities see here: What is Clairvoyant Psychic Reading?
Plan It
Next, find out everything you need to know. Do some reading, take some classes, and talk to people. Put yourself in all the places where people who have made your dream come true are and start finding out what it took for them to make that dream come true. You might get lucky and make new friends along the way who can help you to manifest your intentions and make them become reality. Budgets for costs, organize materials, and tell yourself that this is on its way to happening because you will make it so. Perhaps most importantly, after you learn what it takes and make your plan, set aside time to bring this intention into being. Nobody really has the time to do things because we are all busy doing things all the time. So make sure to rearrange your schedule to make time for this, and set other things aside that you are doing if you have to. Next is the final step to success! One sign that plans and organizes to maximize success is Virgo and you can read about them here: Virgo Traits and Love Compatibility
Do It
Just get out there and start making things happen. If you want to learn to fly helicopters, take the classes and learn how. If you want to go on a cruise, after you have saved money, set aside the time and go on that cruise. If you want to learn how to use a sewing machine, sit down with somebody who will teach you, and start sewing. If somebody else could learn to do it, so can you. Manifesting intentions really is that simple. If it’s worth dreaming about, it is worth planning, and it is definitely worth doing. To read about manifesting your best self see here: How to Be Your Best Self
There is no special program you need to follow to manifest your intentions after changes happen in life. There is no one right way to make things happen in life and no one right way to use your abilities to make things happen. It is necessary to embrace changes and move forward from the past if you want to live in the present and work toward the things you want in your future. So don’t hold onto the past. Instead, dream your dreams, make plans, and get out there and make your dreams become your reality. May all the changes in your life be beautiful ones, and may you dream big and manifest all you ever hoped to. So Be It.
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About the Author: Lady Saoirse has studied magic and lore for most of her life but started walking her own Magical Path after being spiritually reborn in the desert. Today she is a High Priestess for The Temple of the Goddess, she is a psychic advisor and spiritual counselor, she shares her gifts as a Psychic and Content Writer for Spiritual Blossom. She has written for Mysticsense and PaganPagesOrg emag.
